Tuesday, May 12, 2009

5 Ways To Get Back With Your Ex

Hi there! I am glad you are here. Whether you are dating or married you have a chance to get your ex back. It is possible.
Relationships are fragile and you need to constantly maintain them in order to keep them healthy and allow them to flourish. Break ups are hurtful and stressful and you may only want to "get back at" your ex, not get back together with them. The following 5 steps are not only good for getting back at your ex but they are excellent for getting them back!

1. Be strong- you need to stop begging or clinging or showing desperation. Let your ex think you have moved on and you are doing just fine without them. They will realize that they have not.

2. Minimize communication- cutting off the lines of communication may seem like the opposite of what you are trying to accomplish but it's one of the most important steps you can take. This will allow them to clear their mind and realize how valuable the relationship was.

3. Be flexible- don't be forceful by demanding that they move out and take their bags with them by a certain date. Be flexible, listen and sympathize. Your ex will appreciate this side of you and may desire to build the lines of communication that were once lacking.

4. Get out!- this is no time for you to be alone! Call your friends and ask for their support and enjoy some 'you' time.This doesn't mean dating or flirting it means taking time for you. This will convince your ex that they lost a treasure.

5. Be yourself- there was a reason your ex fell in love with you in the first place. By being yourself you can remind him who that person was and why he fell in love with you to begin with. You will both have a renewed sense of self-perception.

Just knowing what to do isn't always enough. You have to be willing to act.

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